We're one month into the new year! Are you still working on your health goals? 🙂 I hope so; if not, trust me, you're not alone. But if the excitement of the new year and "getting down to business" has been challenging for you or if you feel this has led to a never-ending cycle of "starting over," I encourage you to keep reading this blog post to learn "why" this keeps happening and how to put an end to these annoying cycles.
As the holiday season has wrapped up, so do the festive social gatherings that can lead to the enjoyment of more food, drinks, and desserts than usual. (Some of us still have the Super Bowl to look forward to….. ME!🙋🏾♀️🥲 These, coupled with the onset of a new year, contribute to the culture of making diet-focused New Year’s resolutions a common tradition. [(And the breaking of these resolutions within a few weeks is a tradition almost as common as making those goals in the first place.)] I’m just saying..
Before we begin, know that there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to improve nutrition, fitness, and health right after the holidays. This is referred to as the “fresh-start effect,” where goals center around a time-related milestone—like the start of a new year (1). I encourage and celebrate health goals at any time of year. But let me share with you some strategies to help you see more success and well-being than the typical New Year’s resolutions.
Why we should rethink diet-focused New Year’s resolutions
Research shows that most people who make New Year’s resolutions give up on them before the end of January (2,3). All the reason why I’m sending this now. 🙂
BUT It’s not the fault of the person who gives up. Resolutions are often too ambitious, inflexible, framed negatively, and are attempted without support. These are just a few reasons why they’re difficult to stick with.
I want to propose a different way of making health goals. A way that is more achievable, sustainable, and can more easily become lifelong regular habits.
[A Little Fun fact: Out of all of the personal goals that people make New Year’s resolutions about, two out of every three revolve around eating habits, physical health, and weight loss (1).]
There are a few things to think about when considering diet-focused New Year’s resolutions.
Firstly, there is no physiological reason to wait for a specific date to take a step toward better health. You can start eating slower, choosing a fruit or vegetable, and stop eating when you're full at your very next meal. You can decide to implement your “fresh start” goal right here and now. Change doesn’t have to be drastic. That’s what often sets us up to fail before we even get started.
Secondly, the motivation behind many diet-focused goals may have unhealthy origins. (think social media, influencers, etc...)
Rather than coming from a place of love, empowerment, and future health, there are many not-so-healthy reasons some people make diet-focused New Year’s resolutions:
We focus on "diet" rather than lifestyle change, on what we need to eliminate instead of what foods we need to incorporate more of.
Because others around them (or online) are doing so (desire to fit in/societal pressures and expectations)
Feeling guilty about the current health status or feeling less than because of our current health status [(“comparisonitis”)]
As a “free pass” to overindulge during the holidays (2), this can look different for everyone, and sometimes, we can take it too far.
Thirdly, diet-focused goals are often unrealistic and unattainable. [This means that the problem is the goal itself, NOT the person.] These goals can lead to disappointment, shame, guilt, and possibly even worse health habits and outcomes. Some experts believe there may be a link between certain diet-focused New Year’s goals and worsened well-being (3). Plus, unrealistic health goals may spark or contribute to [yo-yo/frequent] dieting. Do you know anyone who experiences this? Most of us know someone or have struggled with this ourselves. I'm telling you, you're not alone!
A Better Way To Set Health Goals
Making smaller, more sustainable changes can lead to more success. Studies show that certain types of goals are also more likely to contribute to—and not take away from—a sense of well-being. Here are some research-backed strategies to help you make better health goals at any time of the year.
Have more flexible goals.
A 2021 study in the International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health found that over time, people with flexible New Year’s resolutions report greater well-being than those who are less flexible about their goals (3).
What makes a goal flexible? Researchers define it as “the ability to view setbacks with equanimity and adjust goal pursuit as required.”
This positive impact of having more flexible goals may be because when reaching a goal becomes difficult, adjusting the goal itself may help to maintain a sense of well-being. The ability to respond to challenges and opportunities helps us “to feel more autonomous in relation to the self and the future,” said the study authors (3).
Have more flexibility in the way goals can be reached.
That same 2021 study also looked at the outcome of “goal tenacity,” which is being more persistent when obstacles to reaching goals appear. Perhaps surprisingly, goal tenacity does not help people reach their goals. In fact, the rigidity in how goals are reached was harmful to some because it chipped away at their sense of well-being (3). It’s important to remember that “consistency” is not synonymous with the word “constantly.”
Why are there negative effects of too much goal tenacity?
First of all, being more rigid and persistent in how goals are reached can make reaching the goal more difficult because of the inability to adjust and adapt. I mean, let's be honest here: if life itself isn’t a constant, why should we expect our health goals to be? Being too rigid with our goals without giving us the ability to adjust them isn’t realistic. Plus, tenacity can also lead to an “all-or-nothing” approach where when progress is not felt, some goal-setters abandon the goal altogether rather than adjust the actions needed to reach the goal. (My sista or brother, have you experienced this before?) If so, being inflexible in the process of achieving goals has been linked to perfectionism, depression, and anxiety (3). ~I'm totally guilty of the perfectionism one! 🙋🏾♀️
Set goals around the positive outcomes you’d like to achieve (rather than the negative outcomes you want to avoid).
A 2020 study published in the journal PLoS One found that “participants with approach-oriented goals were significantly more successful than those with avoidance-oriented goals” (1). An approach-oriented goal is one where your goal is to achieve a positive result (4). For example, a goal of getting fitter and stronger is a positive, approach-oriented goal that is more likely to be achieved, rather than an avoidance-oriented goal such as not getting diabetes.
Enlist support.
That same 2020 study found that people who had some social support were more likely to reach their goal than those who tried to go at it alone (4). Having someone, like a friend or family member, can have positive effects when it comes to reaching goals.
Examples of Better Health Goals
Here are a few examples of small, flexible health goals that can become sustainable over the long term. Whatever goals you choose to make, set them from a place of self-love.
Snack smarter (on most days)
Small snacks can add up to a big impact over time. Instead of pre-packaged, processed snacks, commit to eating fruit and nuts as snacks three or four times per week. There is overwhelming evidence of the healthful effects of eating fruits and nuts, and most people don’t eat nearly enough. If you need some examples of quick snacks to have on hand, check out this link or click on the veggie pic!
Choose water (a couple of times a day)
Water is a great way to hydrate while reducing the amount of sugar (and empty calories) in sugary drinks. Being hydrated with less sugar is a win-win for your health. If you need ideas on ways to drink more water, click on the water pic to the right! 👉🏾
Practice eating more mindfully (at least once a day).
Beyond what you choose to eat and drink is how you eat and drink. By slowing down and savoring the aromas, tastes, and textures of food, you can enjoy food even more. Try having your meals at a table (not a desk or in the car), ignoring all devices and screens while eating, chewing the food well, and putting the spoon or fork down to relax a bit between bites. Mindful eating may also help to realize when we’re satisfied with food, preventing unnecessary overindulgence (2). For strategies on how to become a mindful eating master, check out this link here. 👈🏾
Listen to your body and be kind to yourself
I cannot stress this enough! We are often our worst critics when things do not go 100% our way. Part of health and well-being is how you treat yourself and your body. Setting and reaching health goals does not guarantee happiness nor make you more worthy of love and kindness than you are right now. You are enough and deserve respect. ♥️ Make self-love, self-care, and kindness—regardless of challenges or discouragement—goals, too (5,6).
You are the person who is most able to feel gratitude and appreciate yourself every day of the year—whether you reach other goals or not. Don’t be too hard on yourself. You haven’t failed, and you don’t have to give up. Keep listening to your body and being kind, no matter what (5,6).
Bringing It All Home (Bottom Line)
How we choose our health goals can make a big difference in how long we’ll stick with them, how they impact our well-being, and how much success we see. This is very common and is not your fault.
Remember not to be too hard on yourself when challenges arise because they will. Allowing yourself some flexibility in how you set and reach your goals, opting for positive goals, and enlisting support can help you improve your health and maintain well-being throughout the year. These can also help you stick to your new healthy lifestyle for longer and be more sustainable so that you are better positioned to achieve those goals.
Remember, attainable goals for healthier lifestyle habits can be made any day of the year, including today.
Do you need help setting yourself up for success with health- or diet-focused goals? As a registered dietitian, I’m here to help.
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References
(1) Oscarsson, M., Carlbring, P., Andersson, G., & Rozental, A. (2020). A large-scale experiment on New Year's resolutions: Approach-oriented goals are more successful than avoidance-oriented goals. PloS one, 15(12), e0234097. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0234097
(2) Harvard T. H. Chan School of Public Health. (2019, January). Re-thinking your New Year’s resolutions. The Nutrition Source. https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/nutritionsource/2013/12/20/re-thinking-your-new-years-resolutions/
(3) Dickson, J. M., Moberly, N. J., Preece, D., Dodd, A., & Huntley, C. D. (2021). Self-Regulatory Goal Motivational Processes in Sustained New Year Resolution Pursuit and Mental Wellbeing. International journal of environmental research and public health, 18(6), 3084. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph18063084
(4) Pychyl, T. (2009, February 8). Approaching Success, Avoiding the Undesired: Does Goal Type Matter? Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/dont-delay/200902/approaching-success-avoiding-the-undesired-does-goal-type-matter
(5) Canadian Mental Health Association. (2022, December 7). Rethinking your New Year’s resolutions. https://cmha.ca/news/rethinking-resolutions/
(6) Bradley, G. (n.d.). 7 New Year's Resolutions That Will Actually Make You Feel Good. National Eating Disorders Association. https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/blog/7-new-years-resolutions-will-actually-make-you-feel-good